Ohhh, i have similar thoughts all the time...particularly when i consider the possiblities of making fantasy..reality. i've only been exploring my submission for just over 6 months and thus far, only online...in fact, i had a good Dom friend recently point out i'm in my submissive 'infancy' hehe. i often wonder if my submissive fantasies would hold up in real time...if i'm really prepared to take that leap. i agree we all have a line...but i find mine's drawn in the sand...smudged out and redrawn the more i learn and trust and experience. Maybe it's just an indication of my state of readiness...because there are many aspects of my submission that i'm really proud of and never thought i'd achieve.

i'm a firm believer in timing...when the time is right i'll have the courage to, not so much 'jump'...but enjoy sweet surrender...although...when i think on my fantasies...maybe sweet isn't the word..