The issue I'm having on this site (and any other for that mater) is the trust issue. I have found that many women on this site have been so inundated with vague or vulger messages that they are now reluctant to give anyone a chance. I'm on this site to make friends and maybe develop an online relationship because I'm away so much. But with subs being forced to be so guarded the don't know who is real and who if just here for a cheap thrill. I hate to post an issue with no solution, but unfortunately I have none. Am I the only one who sees this happening?