I would love to have answers from both sides, here, please.
Here is the deal: I love to be spanked, especially if it is framed as punishment. The questions are: 1. What could he use as a real punishment? 2. He talks about using spanking as a reward--but with my preference, it would lose something. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can feel punished, without getting rewarded for bad behavior? I don't want to be a SAM, but I don't know how we could handle this, which is I why I am asking for help. I hope I was able to explain well enough that y'all can answer.
As always, thank you in advance for taking the time to read and, hopefully, answer.