I’m 21 (F) and am a virgin, too. I’ve been interested in BDSM for a long ass time but I also come from a relatively religious background and thought for a long time I would wait until marriage, which now seems so not right for me. However, I can’t help but want my first time to be with someone... maybe not that I love, but someone I know very well, trust very much and have good chemistry with. At heart I’m a complete hopeless romantic so in my total heart of hearts I would find my soulmate (who is my ideal Dom and man all around) but I 100% know and understand how unrealistic that is. I don’t feel ready yet to become sexually active but I don’t want to put too much worth and weight on my first time, so I’m unsure of where I’m at right now. All know is that I read too many romance novels 😂