like others have said, you can still be a virgin and be into the lifestyle, however, just be sure that the Dom/me you choose respects your wishes to keep it that way and that if the opportunity does come that you are fully okay with it and talk about your decisions. Just remember that every dom you find is not going to be someone that you can count on or trsut and even tho it is hard to find there are some out there that care about more than just the sex you just have to find them. If you can stay a virgin and can find that one Dom that can guide you into what and who you are as a submissive then that gift that you give when you are ready may be more valuable to that Dom more than you'll ever know.