Thanks, BEG. I have a black dress in mind-floor length, but the top sort of looks like a corset with spaghetti straps. I wasn't sure if I needed to be in kink-wear the whole weekend or what. We can't afford the Westin, but are looking for somewhere cheaper nearby. We actually learned about it walking through the hotel from the mall to the hockey game-with my daughter and 70-something father-in-law in tow, and I did see that they are very discreet. Maybe I will see you there-I have sent an email offering to volunteer some time at the event, partially to save money and partially to meet people in a low-key way. If anyone else has any suggestions, I would be grateful.