someone else's expectations of you,from the outsideThe decision is hers and not coercion - unless the family is threatening to kill her if she refuses. Coercion is a pressure from the outside
Or are you suggesting that a person can coerce him- or herself??
what's not to get, tie the know or take a hike?? I do not understand - marriage or seperation?
and she'll seize is assets because of court systems, from the outsideThen he himself decides beween comfort and freedom, doesn't he? Again, coercion by defintion comes from the outside, and from people.