The decision is hers and not coercion - unless the family is threatening to kill her if she refuses. Coercion is a pressure from the outside
Or are you suggesting that a person can coerce him- or herself??
someone else's expectations of you,from the outside
?? I do not understand - marriage or seperation?
what's not to get, tie the know or take a hike

Then he himself decides beween comfort and freedom, doesn't he? Again, coercion by defintion comes from the outside, and from people.
and she'll seize is assets because of court systems, from the outside