Hi vicki

i think you hit on one of the most important things... it works well for you!. i think that is what we all hope for and what works for one, and feels right for one, isn't necessarily right for someone else. Is why there is no right or wrong and in my opinion why we should all be non judgmental and happy for each other when we do find a way to a make things work.

i too still have sort of online as well, as Sir is 3 hours away, but now it is more a means of communication and continued "getting to know each other". But it is working for us, so far anyway and we have already agreed if something isn't working for one of us, we talk about it, see how we can improve.

i'm so happy that you have found something that works for you vicki.. you deserve it ~hugs~