Something I see a lot is the attitude that switching can't be a lifestyle in itself but has to be a transitional period. We see a lot of people demanding that we "make up our minds" just as bisexual people hear from the straight and gay communities. I made up My mind over 30 years ago that I was perfectly happy the way I was, Dom with some and sub with others. while I fully understand that some people do have a clear and solid preference why do they automatically assume that everyone else has to have one as well?