Hello All. After spending years reading and researching online about the lifestyle I finally have my first submissive. Its been amazing so far, he has a good deal more experience in the lifestyle than I do and at times I am at a loss, such as when hes acting like a little shit. Hes very bad about provoking me so he can get punishment. Ive mostly just been sending him to the cage when he provokes me but he seems to enjoy that as well. Any suggestions on how to deal with this side of him?
On a different note, Weve mostly just been playing acting out scenes in the bedroom but both of us would like to take a step forward in our relationship and make it a little more permanent. He is moving in to my house and will be my live in sub. Any advice on making the transition smooth for both of us?