online relationship do not work. except for brief times when a couple are apart. your best thing is to start with mucnches in your local community. make friends with a few people; never meet anyone except in public places and go alone and leave alone. The lifestyle is full of imposters who will hurt you bad. take your time. And when you meed the person. use your phone to snap his/her picture email it to your account at least never go anywhere till you know and feel good about these folks