A couple of years back, in the course of wandering the web, I started to get curious about BDSM after encountering a variety of pics having to do with such.
So, I asked hubby what he knew about it.
Turned out he's quite experienced, with long-time friends in the Lifestyle and had never brought it up to me because he never had reason (until then) to suspect I had any interest in it.

Then...Talking, Questions, Answers, MORE Questions and he guided me online to learn more about it.
Eventually, he and I both felt I was ready to dip my toes in and give it a try.

For me, it was finding my genuine Niche, as it fit me like a perfectly-tailored suit.
So, we started exploring it more and more, with hubby progressing things as he figured I was ready to handle them--carefully and cautiously--as well as additional info gleaned from talking with him about it, online research and lots of deep thought.

So, while I do consider myself still a Novice, I am a reasonably well-educated Novice who continues to learn.

BDSM...

I will be adding to this as time and Life allow, right now, it's all about Multitasking.