Congratulations to you both!!! It is definitely an exciting and wonderful time, it can be a bit overwhelming too...*grin*. You will be surprised I am sure that it probably won't affect your sex lives as much as you think. I have read several articles on pregnancy and BDSM, when I first got interested...not that I ever planned on getting pregnant again. I believe information is knowledge and I am sort of a geek I like that *grin*. It sort of follows along the lines of exercise or any activity you do before pregnancy, you can still do many things your body has become accustomed to...just with limitations. I know you will both figure it out along the way, that's usually how it flows. I wish you both happiness and joy, it truly is a miracle and will change your lives......