Originally Posted by
just_ine
In my mind there are 3 types of interaction OL.
1. Roleplay and with right, a simple role you play. This is, personally, my least favourite type of interaction and the least 'submissive-feeling'. It seems to be overly sexual without the deep D/s connection. YMMV.
2. Tasking is when the D gives the s tasks to do. Some tasks are given as a once-off and some occurs every day or every week. Often 'proof' in the form of a recounting of the completion of the task or pictures are required. Tasks can take anything from a few seconds to days to complete.
3. The type of scene You described in Your OP is what I learned as 'playing' or 'scening'. My hand obeys to the letter what He describes and I give constant feedback on what I experience.
I have found this type of interaction to have potential to experience subspace and it creates a really close bond. I enjoy this type of play very much and while I don't do cam anymore, voice is just as wonderful.
Just a note: the play mentioned above is not 'pretend'. Every response must be true and real otherwise its a glorified role play. That means I don't fudge Any response. If He says HARDER.....I Do it HARDER, even if it makes me cry. The choice to decide How hard (as an example) is not mine to make.
When I took the step from OL to RL, I found very little difference between what I experienced over voice and what my playpartner did to me. Despite being tied up with real ropes this time and over cam/voice it wasn't. Because I obeyed every command given to a T.
This is of course only my experience and I can't speak for everybody.