To me, identifying with being a submissive is a personal thing. On the outside, I am a very strong woman who is a bit of a control freak. Yet, deep down inside is a woman who loves to yield control to someone who is stronger physically, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally... someone who sees the hidden girl that yearns to be held, cherished, loved... someone who can turn me into a whimpering soul with just a look, a word, a touch...

Don't worry about not fitting in - submissives and Dominants are accepting of all kinds of people. Just be yourself and read, read, read... and don't be afraid to ask questions.

Bright blessings to you on the start of a wonderful journey to self-discovery!
bekka