I wanted to share with you how all of this played out. I told him that friends of mine have advised me not to rush into anything and just give it time. The message I got back was very angry. The main issue was the fact that I have told other people about him and that we chat and how dare I do that( this is the short version). So politely I told him that we do not seem to be on the same page and the fact he is so angryq about me speaking with others is disturbing. I warned him that I am ending all comunication with him. In the last message he send, he warned me that I will go back to him when I see what types of people are in the forum where we chat.
I blocke him at this point and I really feel like I dodged a bullet tonight. On my second day in the forum... a little discouraging.
One more time - thanks for everything!