A few years ago I was in a play relationship with a switch . I needed to forget about being a slave (as I identified then) and quickly learn a few tricks.

For me it helped to write out the scene as I saw in my mind. I made a list of all the toys and corruptables I would need and he had to ensure they were set out. I sometimes had a little surprise for him too *grins*.

Also, research helped me so much with ideas! There are great tutorials online.

And remember... Have FUN! That's what it is all about!