Hello, my name is Carol and I'm looking for some help to enter the BDSM lifestyle. I always had some curiosity about it, I use to read some blogs and now I'm thinking about starting to fulfill my fetish of being submissive during sex. I'm divorced atm and I'm a little afraid scare my current lover since he is a little conservative regarding to sex, I've been thinking of using dating sites like this, but honestly I don't know if thats the way of starting. I'm all open to suggestions.