Hi Carol, and welcome. We all started from somewhere and I totally agree with the posts above. Read, look around, what excites you and your partner, then explore. Its an old book but consider 'Screw the Roses, send me the thorns' Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism: Philip Miller, Molly Devon: 9780964596009: Amazon.com: Books The Romantic side of this life style is most delightful, sensuous, loving and amazing. Trust your instinct, listen and communicate with your other. Above all talk to those that have the experience, this way you can stay safe sane and consensual, this is paramount as you have fun .

Sett x