I know I'm late to this thread but I haven't seen anyone talk about "what" they use as a lubricant for the massage. I'm big on worshiping, and one of the ways I like to do that is massage. A nice hot oil massage to be exact. I like to warm almond oil because it a thicker oil and goes far. (please be careful and test the oil on the inside of your wrist before using on your partner). It smells nice and since I have an oral fetish, I have learned it taste nice too! I like to have my hands oiled, to massage His cock, balls, taint/perineum, and ass. And once he is nice and relaxed, I tend begin oral worshiping next and I have no fear of using penetration to massage the prostrate. A nice blowjob with internal massage along the prostrate seems to be a nice touch