While I am not currently looking for a sub, being in the same age group as you and also not having any practice prior to signing up on this forum, I would love to hear about any thoughts and experiences you may have. Would love to know what goes on inside the head of a sub during any potential play (especially first time), as I hope to one day use such information to make my own first time memorable because it was good and satisfying, instead of memorable due to miss communication and mistakes. So if you ever want someone to just share experiences with (and don’t mind that person having none to speak of himself), then I would love to be that someone; send me a message should you want something like that. Anyways, hope you find a Dom that can give you what you are looking for, I only wish you happiness and a slightly rose-tinted rear going forward .