Recently I was talking to someone, a Dom, and He told me that He has a fwb arrangements with a woman who is a masochist. He has always been adamant that it is something He isn't willing to do.

However, recently He has been playing with the idea.

He asked me how I would go about, teaching/learning... not only the techniques, but also the mindset of a Sadist.

I wasn't sure the mindset could be taught. Do You think it can?

I wrote a mini-essay on the different uses for clothes pegs in play and didn't try to be ...sexy or arousing at all.

He told me that reading the information and imagining doing it, was extremely arousing for Him.
I took it for a sign that perhaps there are some sleeping desires hidden in His mind.


Do You think a masochist is someone who can 'teach'and educate and guide someone such as He? Is this better done by another Dom/Sadist?

Perhaps a masochist can teach the acts... but another Dom will be best at teaching or guiding regarding the mindset?