Sounds like you need to do some quick study. There is a wealth of information about BDSM, Dominance and the makings of a good Dom here. She sounds, on the surface as if she already has some experience or has been doing some research herself. My advice is find time to talk openly and frankly to her about what she is feeling, what she finds about BDSM that interests her and, if she will talk about it, what experience she has had.

Some of the kinds of play you have described are easily learned. Some of them require some care and some understanding before I would suggest you attempt them. Go slowly. IF she is inexperienced as well, you can start a most amazing journey of discovery together if you will be patient.

If there is a local group that you could join, the advice and help from others can be of tremendous advantage. Many of us here were schooled in BDSM in groups such as these. Some of us in a more traditional way, others in a less formal means. Finding like minded people who you can talk to, watch, ask questions of, and feel comfortable with will make a tremendous difference in your experience.

I also advise you to be careful of what you find on the internet. While there are some good sites and some good people, it is wise to be wary of a lot of the so called "BDSM" websites that offer teaching, or learning or other so called instructional formats. Many of them are scams. There are many good people in this forum. It is one of the best venues I have found for getting started in BDSM in a safe and sane way.

My last piece of advice is "Be patient" Do not rush into anything. Communicate with your partner. BDSM is predicated on trust. Trust takes time to build and develop. This can be a wonderful and exciting part of being a couple. Enjoy it together.

I am sure there are others who can offer you better advice than I. They will be in contact with you.

If there are any other questions you have or if you just need to talk, please don't hesitate to contact me.