Exactly so.

I have found a number of 'do me' male subs out there, unwilling to say what they want, but wanting it right! Women are often more aware that communication is a must and they have to do their part, but not all. I think people feel that if they have to say too much, the magic is lost and they are really directing the scenes. But there is a difference between a big general talk about needs and wants, and directing an individual scene. And this topic is so vast, interests so highly individual, and the risk of getting it wrong so big that no one should put up with the 'do me' attitude.

After all, if people want to be dominated, they must accept that the dominant does take charge and sets some rules. Otherwise it is just exploitation.