I'm new to the site and honestly pretty new to bondage. I didn't even know I was interested in it until a few months ago when I met and fell in love with a man who is into it. At first I was put off (probably because of my upbringing) but at the same time intrigued. Now, I want more and he 's afraid I'm like someone from his past who faked an interest just to get f****d. How do I convince him I'm not her? Every other part of our life together is going smoothly. And we are very much in love and plan to be married.