ok, so the update:

First? I found the videos to be very great learning resources, Ian Roth and Aiden Star are very good at explaining the many things to watch for, consider, and how to's along with giving personal real life experiences in ways that are understandable, along with giving pointers and suggestions on things to consider when opening negotiations and yes, they even went over how to properly warm up an ass before using a leather belt.
Second: I am very happy to report that vanilla friends are now perfectly corrupted and if not yet? they should be joining the Library very soon. *wink*