Hiya

This is a HUGE issue for me through my years in the online community.

Why should the one party be showing all the trust while the other can hide behind a title to keep their security intact.

I call BULLSHIT, pardon my French.

If he wants to see you, then you get to see him... and if he refuses... ask yourself why. Have you been naked on cam? How do you know he wasn't recording you?! And who then carried the risk in those encounters? IF he really cares, then let him shoulder some risk too.

Until submissives say NO to abusive behaviour (and make no mistake, it is abusive) this type of exploitation won't stop.


To be fair, I can't say he is a user... but then give him an opportunity to prove he isn't.