I have been with my husband for 7 years and he is amazing. After about 5 years of me begging him to take a more dominant role in our relationship he relented. He says he loves it and can't go back- I've "woken a beast." This man is incredibly dominant by nature!! I thought it would all come naturally to him, but it's fallen short of expectations. I melt when he takes the control...and then it stops. It's so sporadic and confusing. So, my question- is it possible to "train" a Dom to be more consistent? More strict?