It's just maddening. I've tried, over the years, reaching out to Torq (who does not own the site) and, through WHOIS, to whoever does. I've asked if they'd be willing to consider selling the site, or at least transferring admin responsibiilty.

Nada. Bumpkus. Silence.

In the meanwhile, the others shuttered on by one. Slavefarm. HomemadeBDSM. A bunch of former communities, leaving mostly racket at large, ungoverned and unfocused sites.