Hello. I'm new to being a submissive. I have always knew that I wanted this though. I have spent 5 years searching for the perfect Dom for me and found him. We both needed the connection for ltr as we are not into just the play here and there. I also ran corporate offices and am intelligent which he says he likes. We have a lot in common as well. We have moved in together 3 weeks ago. Here likes my dilemma, he has given me tasks. Not a problem to do. However, his schedule is a bit erratic (work related) and I can't tell if/when a time would be good besides bedtime. I'm so not the sort.. bedtime only. I've said this to him and he replied with it doesn't matter what my reply to you will be. Also, I always ask him...do you want anything? It's always regular things non sexual which frustrates me. What am I not seeing here? Any advice would be great. We have things in common, hot for each other and the sex is good. He has dove into the bondage thing too much with me yet.