Iím 21 (F) and am a virgin, too. Iíve been interested in BDSM for a long ass time but I also come from a relatively religious background and thought for a long time I would wait until marriage, which now seems so not right for me. However, I canít help but want my first time to be with someone... maybe not that I love, but someone I know very well, trust very much and have good chemistry with. At heart Iím a complete hopeless romantic so in my total heart of hearts I would find my soulmate (who is my ideal Dom and man all around) but I 100% know and understand how unrealistic that is. I donít feel ready yet to become sexually active but I donít want to put too much worth and weight on my first time, so Iím unsure of where Iím at right now. All know is that I read too many romance novels 😂