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Practical skills training is perhaps the area with the largest variety in training that a new submissive might be exposed. For the purposes of this discussion I will divide practical skills training into three main areas; domestic skills, social skills and artistic expression.

Domestic Skills

Domestic skills training is primarily concerned with real-life, D/s relationships where ...

At first blush one might be tempted to combine submissive emotional training with the mental training category, but I believe the two, while akin, are not the same. Recall the last time you did or said something when you were angry. It is easy to see that emotions are not the rational cognitive thought processes we think of when we use the word mental.

The Emotions

Emotions, ...

Mental training is next up in our examination of submissive training. Training focused on the mental realm involves things like memorization, keeping a journal, improving concentration skills (i.e., meditation), acquiring new knowledge, improving problem solving skills and learning to bend the will more effectively to that of the dominant through development of greater determination to please and persistence ...

Verbal training, our next category, like physical training is multi-faceted, covering numerous areas. Also like all categories, there are natural overlaps between this category and others. Again I will mention that while the specific category exposition posts may be read in any order, for anyone who may have missed Understanding Submissive Training, the overview, I feel it would be useful to read that post ...

The first area of training I will discuss is physical training. Subsequent posts will examine another of the remaining seven categories of submissive training. Later posts may be read in any order, however if you missed it, you might find it useful to read first, Understanding Submissive Training, the introductory post, for background information before proceeding to the individual training area posts. ...

When a novice submissive first hears those fateful words from his or her dominant, “I am ready to begin your training,” or something similar, quite often the heart skips a beat, the pulse quickens, the eyes widen, the brow furrows and the stomach flutters.

By the time we enter into a relationship with a dominant, typically we have acknowledged if not embraced our submissive nature and we have ...

The roots of our society are patriarchal, an environment where a male-dominated society was perceived as normative. Gender roles were narrowly construed. Women, the “weaker sex” were cast in the submissive role. Males were portrayed as the socially powerful, physically strong and aggressive gender. The movement towards gender equality and flexibility has been slow.

Being Raised as a Male ...

Stage six of the well-known stages of BDSM growth, is the “Partner Search” stage. For the submissive that means beginning an active search for a dominant to submit to and to fill that often intense longing, “I want to be trained.”

For novice submissive males, stage six is the next step in the logical progression from the previous five stages: discovery, over coming fears, the first steps of ...

Chastity is another meaningful lifestyle activity that I enjoy. I suppose I feel a strong attraction for it because to me chastity has so much to do with being controlled and being in control. In a D/s relationship, being required to remain chaste by a Domme gives her control one of the most intimate aspect of life, sexual expression and pleasure.

Within the context of the lifestyle, chastity ...

Fantasies, at least in my opinion are one of the more fascinating aspects of human sexuality. They provide depth and dimesion to a person’s sexuality in ways that perhaps no other singular things can do. Sharing fantasies with another person is in my experience an excellent way of getting acquainted because it promotes honest, intimate disclosure.

When a person shares a fantasy with you it reveals ...