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hi Everyone! I am openlyrefined & just wanted to write in here & get to know some other members a little more.

I have been in the lifestyle for 5 or six years, though wasn't active through all of them. I did tons of research, reading, went to muches, joined active groups, etc.

Right now I am actively reading forums, joined tasking and well, really just welcome questions, comments & new friends.

I have only had 1 other dom. We had met online & it was ...

I have been sitting here comtemplating my future for a number of different reasons and because of various situations that have recently come to my door. I am not going to ramble off into a woe is me type of blog because really...woe is not me. I am eternally optimistic and positive in my outlook on life. Often to my own peril, I am frequently disappointed with reality. However, having read somebody elses blog I feel inspired to write one myself based on a comment I was going to leave about her ...

I was allowed 5 orgasms after my previous exercise, removing the plug from this ass that belongs to him, touching the cunt that is his, after masturbating so frequently to deal with the discomfort, i was on the edge and my first orgasm came quickly and easily with just a bit f prolonged clit stimulation.
The second was nearly as easy, though i went slower and let it build, He wanted orgasms worthy of him... fingers swirling on the clit, teasing the cunt...slipping in for a quick finger fuck ...

Women are notorious for geting manicures and pedicures and going through all sorts of rigamoroll to make their feet look good. They will paint their nails, get the collouses shaved off, get them pummiced and spend dollar after dollar to ensure they have pretty feet. Then they buy shoes.

The shoes they purchase are rarely comfortable. They are frequently too small or lack arch support. Most often they are painful to wear, pinching their toes, causing blisters and creating callouses ...

[FONT="Arial Narrow"][SIZE="3"][COLOR="DarkOrchid"]Smile though your heart is aching;
Smile even though it's breaking.
When there are clouds in the sky, you'll get by.
If you smile through your fear and sorrow,
Smile and maybe tomorrow,
You'll see the sun come shining through for you.

Light up your face with gladness,
Hide every trace of sadness.
Although a tear may be ever so near,
That's the time ...

Wow, thanks to everyone who left a comment on my last blog. I never expected so many suggestions. Great advice, and I'm trying to use it. It's just hard to tell him what I want when I don't know what I want. I'm still reading and trying to learn, though.

It's also a problem that I'm having a hard time motivating him to do his own research. I mean, I'm trying to figure out what I like and what my limits are and communicate that to him, but he doesn't seem to be doing anything. ...

Okay, okay, I know we're all very serious about this BDSM thing. She belongs to him, or her, or them, or he does, or whatever. Sir this, Miss that, Mistress, etc, blah blah blah blah blah.

I want to rant about this phenomenon, but first, a disclaimer:

I fully understand--and interpret according how I see fit--the BDSM relationship. It is not to be taken lightly, per se, owning or being owned by another. Devoting yourself to someone completely or taking on the responsibility ...

I don't know what I've done
Or if I like what I've begun
But something told me to run
And honey you know me it's all or none

There were sounds in my head
LIttle voices whispering
That I should go and this should end
Oh and I found myself listening

'Cos I dont know who I am, who I am without you
All I know is that I should
And I don't know if I could stand another hand upon you
All I know is that I should ...

inching my way closer and closer to my 30th birthday and catching up with my mom's 29th i seem to get braver and braver. Actually been attending more and more munches and getting to know people. Although i have this invisible shield around me .. proclaiming that i'm really not interested in anyone, that i'm not searching for anyone. But of course.. deep down that is a lie. I'm searching, i'm looking. Even on here i'm searching and even get a bit jealous as girls find *their Master*. Why is it so ...

Punishment or for His pleasure, does it really matter? The plug I've had in my ass for 15 hours now is a chore to keep in, my body wants to expel it, I'm allowed to remove it to utilize the bathroom, but then its right back inside. Masturbating takes my mind off the discomfort and I know that His pleasure is increased by my need and frustration, this state of arousal and discomfort is because of His will, this body is his and i give it freely to him to use as he wishes.
Dinner out last ...