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A random look at one man's journey through the absurdity of life and his attempt to make sense of and peacefully co-exist with this thing called submission

  1. Reconciling Maleness With Being Submissive

    by , 08-16-2010 at 10:13 PM (The Perfect Submissive Guy Blog Title)

    When you grow up as a male, you learn pretty quickly what behaviors are expected of you to satisfy the societal expectations for the male gender; avoidance of femininity, restricted emotions, self-reliance. strength and aggression. If you expect to be taken seriously as a male you must in in summary behave dominantly. Later as you grow up you add a few more expected behaviors to the list; sex disconnected from ...

    Updated 08-16-2010 at 10:20 PM by serviam {PixieStick}

  2. A Primer on Edges

    by , 08-10-2010 at 01:05 PM (The Perfect Submissive Guy Blog Title)

    Edging, also sometimes termed “peaking” is a technique whereby a person masturbates until they are at the very pinnacle of arousal where just a moment or two more of stimulation will cause them to reach the point of no return and start to climax. Edging, according to American sex expert, Dr. Barbara Keesling’s book Making Love Better Than Ever After 40 (Hunter House Books. Alameda, CA: 1998) creates wave-like ...

    Updated 08-10-2010 at 07:56 PM by serviam {PixieStick}

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  3. Exploding Male Submissive Myths

    by , 08-06-2010 at 12:15 PM (The Perfect Submissive Guy Blog Title)

    If you do a web search on submissive or submission, invariable tons of information can be found on submissive females but in comparison very little about submissive males. What you do find is largely either unflattering or just plain wrong.

    Obviously every individual is unique and different so not every submissive male is going to be identical, but lack of information about male submission I think

    Updated 08-08-2010 at 07:33 PM by serviam {PixieStick}

  4. A Micro Fantasy

    by , 08-03-2010 at 06:49 PM (The Perfect Submissive Guy Blog Title)

    By way of back story, each day I send my Mistress a good morning email. Partly it serves as a journal of sorts to let her know what is going on in my head and as a means for reporting on any task assignments. I try to include a little “offering” for her each morning, sometimes a bit of prose, a poem that I have written for her or even short fantasies that may fit my theme for the day. Here is ...

    Updated 08-04-2010 at 06:47 AM by serviam {PixieStick}

  5. Bath Time - A Fantasy

    by , 08-02-2010 at 08:33 PM (The Perfect Submissive Guy Blog Title)

    Since beginning this blog, it has sort of morphed into something more than I intended. I recall writing in the first post that I would share among other things fantasies and favorite activities. But my last many posts have been more along the lines of articles about concepts I felt might be helpful for a novice submissive to read about. Today, I will return briefly to my original ...
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  6. Understanding Submissive Mentoring

    by , 07-26-2010 at 07:29 AM (The Perfect Submissive Guy Blog Title)

    Recently a very good friend of mine shared with me some very painful details about a submissive mentorship experience that went horribly wrong. Those details were shared in confidence between friends and of course I am not at liberty to discuss them. Let us just say that my friends experiences did not meet the expectations for the mentorship and resulted in a lot of confusion and pain that should not have happened. ...
  7. Discipline and Correction - Enforcing Obedience and Conforming Behavior

    by , 07-22-2010 at 07:33 PM (The Perfect Submissive Guy Blog Title)

    Discipline and correction and how it relates to submissive training will be the final category discussed in this basic introduction to submissive training content and techniques. Some might see these two terms as meaning essentially the same thing. Others might wonder why punishment was not included in the title. To address the latter first, correction may involve punishment but punishment is generally punitive ...

    Updated 07-22-2010 at 07:50 PM by serviam {PixieStick}

  8. The Big Kuhuna - Sexual Training

    by , 07-16-2010 at 12:50 PM (The Perfect Submissive Guy Blog Title)

    Sexual training is likely the category that elicits the most interest and likely produces the most anxiety among those new to submission and the BDSM lifestyle. I am confident that when just about any new submissive looks at a BDSM play partner questionnaire for the first time, there are more than a few gasps of disbelief along with frequent exclamations of, “Oh my god, I’d never do that!”

  9. The Role of Mantras in Submissive Training

    by , 07-15-2010 at 11:07 AM (The Perfect Submissive Guy Blog Title)

    By definition a mantra is a sound, syllable, word, or group of words that are considered capable of creating personal transformation, a powerful tool for self-development, healing and manifestation. Mantras originated in the Vedic tradition of India, later becoming an essential part of the Hindu tradition and a customary practice within Buddhism, Sikhism, and Jainism. Mantras remain an integral part of many ...
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  10. The Use of Rituals in Submissive Training

    by , 07-15-2010 at 08:59 AM (The Perfect Submissive Guy Blog Title)

    Rituals have been used by pagans and religions for thousands of years to deepen psychic and spiritual awareness. At its most basic, a ritual may be defined as any formalized action or set of actions, repeated in a specific and structured way. Rituals are processed at the inner self or subconscious level making the practice of rituals a very effective means of shaping a person's beliefs, self-image, thoughts ...

    Updated 07-15-2010 at 09:34 AM by serviam {PixieStick}

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