Conversation Between Fluffy14 and Valshar

Thank you....seems that I had been granted a 2nd chance. That my dreams have not died. I am lucky and slightly sad at the same time because it does remind me of what I have lost. Yet, I have gained almost as much as I have lost. I hope you are doing well too.

I see congrats are in order for you ... I wish you well on the joureny of Life ... take care my FRIEND

hey just passing by .. Thought i would stop in and see how you are doing dear friend ... I hope life is treating you well and now you are also able to Smile with love in your heart ... Knowing loved ones are never forgotton... But new memories are for walking the life road again and
for you to take .. Hugs from scotland

Hello my Friend .... Just passing by and stopped to say Hello .. I hope the New path of Life you are on is now making you SMILE if only for a short while ... As we all need to get back on with the Journey of LIVING and find our way again .. Take Care and walk the path Safely ( Hugs )

Fluffy,

HUGS. Your timing could not be better. Today marks one year since Sunshine died. Like you, I have found that time has helped...the grief has turned to sorrow and the pain of missing her is more bearable. It is as if there is a tear that wells up in my eye, but never falls. A small reminder of what was lost. I want to "replace" her, but that is not possible. I hope to find someone to share adventures with, but I think that there is little hope. It makes me appreciate what I had with her all the more. I hope that you will find a time where you only have fond memories of your Father and that the sting of his passing is no more. I tell myself to do things to remember Sunshine....to honor her life and to not let her memory pass into nothing. Small comforts....knowing that our pain in missing the ones we love is the way to honor them. Thank you for remembering Sunshine and me. You take care.

Hello my Friend .. I was thinking of you the other day And Hope as i have had 7 months of pain since my Father passed away that your Greif is easing slightly also .. I know that is a strange statement to make as People say time is a great Healer .. But i think it just makes time and days more bearable to endure.... As when you lose someone you Love How or why should we ever try to replace that person .. But as people say Life goes on .. Which is true And for you i hope at some point YOU SMILE A SMILE FOR YOU AND SUNSHINES AND THE HAPPINESS SHE BROUGHT YOU .. HUGS FROM SCOTLAND

Hi Hope you are doing OK ... Just stopped in as i have not been here for such a long time.... Should be summer in Scotland But NOPE !!!!! Rain Rain and more Rain LOL Hugs Catch with you soon

Death just seems like such a sudden thing that happens quickly and then you are left with a pile of fragments of memories. There are things to be made sense of, words that could have been said or wish that had been said, and only those fragments remain to give answers to you when maybe there aren't any.

All I can tell you is that there are going to be a sea of emotions that you will feel and that, in the end, you can hand onto the fond memories with fewer tears.

Just want to say a huge thanks for your kind words .. life is such a strange journey and we are here for an instant ... It is what we do when we are here that makes us be remembered through others when we are gone ... I loved my Father with all my Life and he has gone and left such an empty space in me Heart .. But i continue to walk this journey of life and see where it takes me on it's such strange path

Hugs and hope to chat with you soon .. I do truly hope you are remembering sunshine with a smile now rather than tears x

Long time no see....I am truly sorry to hear about your Father. No doubt, your heart must be breaking into pieces. I can only hope that you have those around you who love you to help glue the pieces of your heart that are upon the floor. If you need to talk, you are always welcome to chat with me. YIM: valsharvrinn I am doing well enough, the pain of my own loss is a lot less painful and my grief is more now of a sadness at Sunshine not being in my life and I simply try to hold onto the memories that I have. HUGS.