Conversation Between MISTRESS H and mirage030303

Mirage: I would be happy to help plan a session for you, it would be fun. What we need to do is contact each other by email, so that this will be between you and I. One of the first things you want to concentrate on is denial, not on permenent basis, as I see there is a mutal feeling between both of you. Let us say That a session is planned for a weekend, you give him a routine to follow, something like jacking off himself to almost release, but not cuming he has to do this eight times a day for a week before the start of the session. You also need to find a way to tie his cock and balls, so that it makes it harder for him to even get to the point of release. Leaving him in this way, for the week until your session starts, will build up his cum, until his balls swell, and retain all that cum. Now this is discomforting and a little painfull, but nothing to worry about.

Write me and we can carry this on, with tools you will need, and the words to put him in his place. The clothes that you will wear and the style of your demeanor.

Will look forward to you mail.

Mistress H

Mistresse H,
You told me that if i ever had questions or in need of some help i could ask you. i really apreciate the offer an right now i would need some advice on something.
I have been seeing someone for sometimes now and we r good friends. i have told him of my bdsm experience and it turnes out he is also submissive, and have had some experience. we decided we wanted to explore together, and we want to try to have each our turn to be dominant to each other. He has played the role a few times and even if he isnt THE Master, he still brings me pleasure and reliefe. I told him i am willing to learn about being dominant to please him too. I think we can be both switches. The thing is i dont have confident to how to treat him, what to say or how to plan a session. He is into about anything, pain, humiliation, ass play, leather, bondage etc... i would like if you could tell me how to plane a first session. maybe tell me how you go about with a man, what you say to him, what to call him.
I would realy apreciate your oppinion on all this.
thank you mirage

Mirage:

I Do Not Post A Lot Here On The Forum, But Do Know How You Feel, And Some Of What You May Feel. Icey, Tom, And The Rest All Mean Well, And Can Offer Some Well Earned Advice. Mine If Of No Importance. If You Would Like A Friend To Chat With Or Seek Some Advice, Feel Free To Im Me On Yahoo, Or Pm Me Here.

Mistress H