Conversation Between SeattleDom and steelish

Have him tie you spread eagle to the bed, with spreader bars at wrists, near elbows, near knees, and ankles. Then have him straddle your belly. This way, no matter how much you buck, or writhe, he'll be able to control you with his weight, and free arm. That should keep you where he wants you.
You can make all 4 bars for like 20$. Just some dowels and eye screws.

Thanks! Now I just have to work up enough nerve to suggest this to him.

Ha! Easier said than done. I ask my husband to tie me so that I can't move at all and then provide relentless stimulation: vibes, dildos, fingers, tongue, etc. What ends up happening, is that he never ties me tight enough and I either squirm away, knock the stuff away or he gets frustrated and stops.

Have him tie you spread eagle to the bed, with spreader bars at wrists, near elbows, near knees, and ankles. Then have him straddle your belly. This way, no matter how much you buck, or writhe, he'll be able to control you with his weight, and free arm. That should keep you where he wants you.
You can make all 4 bars for like 20$. Just some dowels and eye screws.

Anyone would push it away, so you just have to take that option away.

Ha! Easier said than done. I ask my husband to tie me so that I can't move at all and then provide relentless stimulation: vibes, dildos, fingers, tongue, etc. What ends up happening, is that he never ties me tight enough and I either squirm away, knock the stuff away or he gets frustrated and stops.

Oh geez! Forced orgasms huh? That's one of my biggest fantasies, but also one of my biggest fears! One orgasm and I have to push away all stimulation!!!

Anyone would push it away, so you just have to take that option away.

Oh geez! Forced orgasms huh? That's one of my biggest fantasies, but also one of my biggest fears! One orgasm and I have to push away all stimulation!!!