Conversation Between Fluffy14 and Valshar

You are sweet to drop in on me to see how I am doing. These past 6 months have been full of change. My wife of 17 yrs and 20 yrs together decided that she wanted a divorce. I wanted to work on the relationship, but she did not want to. However, after moving out of the house and then dating, I realized how much we had both grown apart and that so much was missing from my life. I did not dive into the world of BDSM. I actually decided to stay away from it. As much as I desire THIS, I realize that there are a number of pitfalls within this world that may work against me finding someone for a healthy relationship for myself. I found someone who shares my love of the outdoors and enjoys sex, but not like THIS. I am happy. I still talk to my Sunshine in the quiet moments I have in my day. I tell her that I still love her, but that my heart has room for someone else. That my love will not hurt the future relationship(s) that I might have. I just wish that I could have held my Sunshine in my arms to comfort her, to ravish her with lustful desires dark and intense. I will always remember her. This place is where I go to celebrate her life and to mourn her passing from this world and my life. I wish you well and wonder how it is that I have earned your care and thoughtfulness.

Good Eve my friend Long time no see I do hope you are well and life is Being kind to you ....... I often think of you and your powerful Love for Sunshine I really hope life s being good for you and you have found that special one again Hugs Fluffy14 x

LOL Hey life is like a journey Just like all the different motorways Never knowing what route to take right left turns But what I have learnt is you only have one life There is no 2nd chances So take hold of it and drive right through till you need to do an Emergency stop ... Catch your breath and hold on tight for the next Journey Hugs xx My Friend

Fluffy.....I am doing fine. I only come here now to visit with my Sunshine and now that is a lot less frequently. My heart break is gone....only lingering moments of sorrow. I still tell her that I miss her and that I have love her when I have the solitary moments to myself. Time does not heal, but its passing makes the pain dull. I have no complaints. How are you doing these days? Do you have someone in your life to play with and to have devoted to you? I am always in favor of others screwing their brains out....hehehe

Hey stranger Hope you are well ( smiles )

Good to hear from you. I am doing well....work is good (16 yrs at the same company with only 26 more to go before I retire!), my daughter is 10 yrs old and does gymnastics, house is good and so is the wife. Sex is vanilla, but I have to live with it. Done nothing in terms of bdsm. I linger here and other places with some hope, but not expecting anything anymore....yet I have hope.

Hey Been such a very long time since I popped in to say Hello ... Hope you are well

Hey .. When ever you need a Friendly ear i am here.. Life gives us so many challenges and crosses to bare.. But you are strong and have a Good Heart and with all that knowledge in you I am sure you will be strong enough to go forward in this mad Life and make the right choices ( Big Hugs from Scotland )

Fluffy, Thanks for stopping by and saying hello. Not sure that I am having much fun at the moment, but I am hoping that I can let go of my past and move forward. Just not sure of how to go about it. I will be fine, I am a survivor.....

Hey My Friend .. Just stopped by to see how life is Treating you ??? I truly hope all is going well with you and your new Life and you are both having fun on this crazy journey of LIFE lol Take care my Friend ( Hugs from Scotland )