Valshar
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Miss u

16 days seems to be quite a long period of time...

Awesome post! Aww it brought tears to my eyes. I felt the power, truth and beauty in your connection with Sunshine.
So beautiful.
Thank you for sharing!! ♥Anita

A wise Man can do stupid things when considered worth doing.

To answer your question, I see affection through your posts and wisdom through your marriage.

She had been struggling to be realistic, as the combination of a happily married Man and an affectionate wise Sadist had a will-destroying effect on her.

She's beaten, sits back in the corner being quiet, as she usually does.

I need to let you know that I did not notice your blog until about one hour ago. I apologize for the claim that I had read all related posts and feel sorry for the previous message. ..... Haha, I am a Sadist killer. lol

Valshar, this discussion can / should not go further, as all I know about you is the information on both of your profiles and from the two links. Take care

Why do I have a feeling that I am kind of trapped? Yesterday I slept for about 12 hours and through out the time was your messages, not you, but fragments of your messages which I was fighting with. Is this something called "mind game" that I am now gradually getting in and may not be able to get out of? You have dragged my attention to a stranger / pass-by. I didn't expect to visit your page after sending the first visitor message. Yet, there was something in each of your visits which stimulated me and kept me coming back. Well, to answer your question, love is getting your needs met and two people who can meet each other's needs and want the same relationship are able to have a happy marriage / long-term relationship. My point view about love is from a couple in Los Angeles, who both gained qualifications in counselling and relationships years ago. It is nothing, but love that has connected the two together for a life long time. As for the evidence required, it is in your message. ... It's easy to beat your stand but I don't really want to beat a Sadist. ^_^ Hope I am kind enough this time.

Your argument is meaningless, because the premise is wrong. However, your indulgence makes me hesitate to continue exposing you to reality; I am afraid that without the illusion you are not able to live. ....... If what happened between you and her was love, she would at least have stayed in contact with you after withdrawing from the cyber-world. On the other hand, without your wife and daughter being with you, I suspect that you could have been able to enjoy the time spending with her. *Sighs* You don't really understand what love is. ,,,,, This is as far as I can go to discuss this issue with you via visitor messages.