Fluffy14
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Miss F! i'm quite well -- and hoping to see You here!

Fluffy, Thanks for stopping by and saying hello. Not sure that I am having much fun at the moment, but I am hoping that I can let go of my past and move forward. Just not sure of how to go about it. I will be fine, I am a survivor.....

Come to chat! I miss You!

Thank you....seems that I had been granted a 2nd chance. That my dreams have not died. I am lucky and slightly sad at the same time because it does remind me of what I have lost. Yet, I have gained almost as much as I have lost. I hope you are doing well too.

whens a good time to catch you here would love to chat

I thought you had left the UK as a tax exile and was afraid to show others that you were still alive. Shock was not the word, i nearly had to go and get a pace maker...lol. How are you? and you can always pop up on YIM. Be good and be well IAN

Hello Matron was very very sick but am back and now a surivor how are you let me know when to be on wanna talk w u

Fluffy,

HUGS. Your timing could not be better. Today marks one year since Sunshine died. Like you, I have found that time has helped...the grief has turned to sorrow and the pain of missing her is more bearable. It is as if there is a tear that wells up in my eye, but never falls. A small reminder of what was lost. I want to "replace" her, but that is not possible. I hope to find someone to share adventures with, but I think that there is little hope. It makes me appreciate what I had with her all the more. I hope that you will find a time where you only have fond memories of your Father and that the sting of his passing is no more. I tell myself to do things to remember Sunshine....to honor her life and to not let her memory pass into nothing. Small comforts....knowing that our pain in missing the ones we love is the way to honor them. Thank you for remembering Sunshine and me. You take care.

Hey Fluffy, dont you like me any more where have you been?

Death just seems like such a sudden thing that happens quickly and then you are left with a pile of fragments of memories. There are things to be made sense of, words that could have been said or wish that had been said, and only those fragments remain to give answers to you when maybe there aren't any.

All I can tell you is that there are going to be a sea of emotions that you will feel and that, in the end, you can hand onto the fond memories with fewer tears.