JuliusP
Registered User

I wrote this as a response to a blog about punishment after I read most of the replies and they all sounded the same to be about various levels of pain, beatings etc. (not that I'm against any of that!). I don't feel that my way is better, it's just what works for me.
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I find that, in my experience physical pain is very rarely necessary and is sometimes not helpful (if the sub/slave enjoys pain). I find that when I conveyed to her that she had failed at her sole purpose,

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I was reminded of a D/s relationship I had a few years ago and I thought I'd put it out there.

I met a very submissive girl of 25, I was a few years older. We met in on a random comment thread on movie site. Time passes and I notice that she always reacted to my domineering nature in a submissive way. So one day I asked her if anyone had ever told her that she came off very submissive (by this time we were Skyping). She immediately looked down and started blushing. It was then I

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These are just a few random thoughts after a conversations I had with some people a few days ago (the conversation actually led me to seek out others, hence my coming here).

Know what you want, trusting that I know what you need. No one gets everything they want. Don't take things for granted as they are not guaranteed. I don't need a reason to do something nice. Serving brings you comfort, safety and happiness. Providing you with what you need brings me happiness; meaning, if you

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I enjoy Sundays. Early in the morning they're quiet, you can get up and walk down the busiest streets and not see a soul. Everything looks different.

Sundays is my day to do whatever or nothing (except for 30min of gym time). We make life too busy sometimes and you need a day to... decompress, to smell the roses, to appreciate how nice it is to get away from Monday thru Friday and the craziness of Saturday.

I'm just gonna talk here, nothing formal nothing specific.

I am 31, I've been all around the world and enjoyed most of it. I feel that everywhere you go people are really about the same. They care about their families, they want to move up from wherever they happen to be, they all love sex and everyone loves food. I've done most of the things that I've ever wanted to do (which can be frustrating) and the few things I haven't I'm working on. I strive to keep things simple and I truly

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