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Another year is coming quickly to an end. Another year to remember you....honor you....to ponder of another life lived with you. For a long time, my grief prevented me from fantasizing about you....your body, the wonderfully twisted and terrible things that I would do with you. To hear the cries of your anguish and lust. To see your flesh twitch and shiver at my touch. To hear the wet moans slip from your lips and you begged me for more. These last few nights, laying in bed, wrapped the darkness of the deep moonless nights, I stare into the void of darkness. I feel the urge well up in me, coming from the deeps of my soul that I thought that I had drowned in the sea of my tears. These last night, I imagine being with you. I dare to imagine what could have been. Rather than mourn you in sadness, I celebrate you in the hot lust that sparked the unexpected journey that found love....deep, beyond lust, so bound in care and worry. Lest I never forget the spark that made us....I hope to dream of us, wrapped in passionate, lustful embrace. My Sunishine

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emeralds - 07-14-2017 View Conversation

sometimes.. someone hears the words we whisper perhaps that makes them real.. its very sad here.. like the carnival during the day.. without the fairy lights to hide the dirt and grime.
emeralds - 03-10-2016 View Conversation

Romantic is a very good thing... Up to a point : )
emeralds - 03-08-2016 View Conversation

Sighs... Your such a romantic .. Be still my beating heart

So when are you planning your kinky weekend with you girlfriend.. Some lovely soft silk rope, candles, ice and a blind fold?
emeralds - 03-06-2016 View Conversation

Haha.. A week? Are you sure you are up to that ; )
emeralds - 03-02-2016 View Conversation

Pain seeks pain and love seeks love that is how the energies flow. Kinky sex ... Well that's a whole different kettle of fish .. And fish is apparently good for us : )

Thank you for making me smile.
Valshar - 02-24-2016

True...I have come to realize a number of things. That while in my marriage, I felt very alone. I reached out to the internet to try to find a connection with someone to end my loneliness. I found my Sunshine/Misty. What I had with her was a fantasy that I needed to keep my spirits up. She game me something to look forward to. I had an affair with a woman who existed in my life but not in my real life of flesh and blood. She was the fantasy life that I created and needed at that moment. The surprise was finding love, unexpected. I wanted kinky sex, but I found something else that touched me deeply. I mourn her loss, I dream about what could be, yet I know that I have this 2nd chance in real life to have what I dreamed about. Surprisingly, I find myself in a vanilla relationship. I have come to realize for myself that BDSM is all a fantasy with so many emotional pitfalls, traps, and disappointments. There are good people in the community, but so many damaged. We focus on the kinky sex and the sexual acts, yet maybe that focus gets in the way of true intimacy?
emeralds - 02-22-2016 View Conversation

When your mind is filled with dreams your not living your life to the full.. But wishing for something unattainable.

Feelings are always real.. They are in response to our perception or reaction to an experience.. What you had was an intense moment in time ... real but not necessarily reality.
emeralds - 02-10-2016 View Conversation

I always want to ask something but I don't know how without causing offence .. Which is not intended
Valshar - 02-10-2016

I love the outdoors and backpacking. That photo was taken as I was scrambling up a rocky slope to get to a lake that is special to me....it reminds me of my Sunshine. She enjoyed looking photos of the places that I had been to. I imagined that she was there with me while I was on the trail.
emeralds - 02-08-2016 View Conversation

Umm.. How come you are using that avatar?

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Age: 54

About Valshar

BDSM Role:: Nurturing Sadist & Fool

Gender:: Male

Status:: Looking for a woman who is a talented writer for live chat

BDSM Interests:: Applying the riding crop, flogger, pinwheel, and nipple clamps to your body to slowly break down your will. In the end, you will beg me to use your body anyway I see fit and you will love it. Your limits of pain and pleasure will be tested.

A Bit About Yourself:: A Sadist with a Great Sense of Humor and a Sharp Wit for Mind Games. Gifted with a talent for creative, erotic writing that few can match. Smart Ass Masochist & Bitchy women are a fun challenge.

Vanilla Interests:: Light Weight & Long Distance Backpacking, intelligent conversation: history, politics/currrent events, religion, and human sexuality. Martial Arts, Gardening, Computer Games/FPS

Location:: SF BAY AREA

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