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Hi, all. I have started a thread in the ask a Master/Mistress bit, and I would welcome some suggestions from any subs out there who have needed a way to guide their Master in a certain direction... I don't think I can be too direct about it. I'm not very good at subtlety and persuasion, though!
Thanks
I'm soooo disappointed in all you subbies out there! the Masters, bless their little cotton socks, have been really helpful. They have given me lots of food for thought, and even, I think, helped me to find a way to put the issue persuasively, without bruising the ego...
So thanks for nothing guys, humph. *Stomps off in a sulk*
Sorry, that did sound a little ruder than I meant!
Letting the Dom/Domme know in writing if you're interested in something new or have a need that isn't getting satisfied might be a good idea. D. likes for me to write how I feel about the things we do in a journal or in letters to him, and I know a lot of the other Dom/mes give these "writing assignments," too. So if you have a particular concern or desire, it would probably make him feel honored if you wrote him a letter about it, especially if you got hot and heavy with the descriptive writing. :D
Moptop remember that this life is about free choice. A Dom/me that stoops to blackmail is either a poser or an abuser, a Dom/me of the first water knows that if it isn't a gift then it should not be taken.
I am new to all this but I email or write my hubby/Dom when I can't talk to him about something.