Posting a good add
i'm having trouble on getting replies for a female sub
help please
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Posting a good add
i'm having trouble on getting replies for a female sub
help please
Be patient, they are out there.
Have you read the thread marked PLEASE READ at the top of the Personals page?
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=6919
Telling everyone a bit more about yourself might encourage some shy subs to answer your ad.
Or even just spending some time in the forums... let people get to know you and you might find yourself approached... sans ad.
I think just keep in mind that finding a sub isn't like posting on Craigslist for a secondhand TV...there are real people with real feelings who want to make a connection on several levels. Introduce yourself, your interests (not just bdsm stuff...what do you do with your spare time? What's your career field? What do you like in a partner?) and maybe even give a "sample" -- what exactly you're looking to do (again, not just a word or two of things you like, but how you'll control, what scenarios they'll endure, how often you want to play) or a description of some (real!!!) scenarios you've done in the past (doesn't need to be dripping fiction: just a factual account of what you've enjoyed, so they'll know what to expect).
Hope that helps!