Multiple partners

I wonder how well this goes over in the BDSM lifestyle community. These will just be my own experiences and wondering how well it will be accepted. I understand that it may be common practice for Doms to have multiple subs and I don't think that I could possibly keep more than one Dom without feeling guilty of betraying him. But, I do plan to keep some friends w/benefits just for sexual fun. I have an extremely high sex drive. If I could get it 3 to 4 times a day I still wouldn't be satisfied. I need more and more. I'm always thinking about sex, wanting sex and craving it. I have 2 friends I play with about weekly at this point. I could go for more with them but we all have lives and RL gets in the way. Would a Dom be less likely to take me as a playmate because I keep other playmates on the side? Safe sex with the other men is a must. I understand that. I do worry about being labeled a "whore" or slut because I have multiple partners. Yes, growing up and living in a small town does tend to give you a small amount of guilt even if you don't agree with their mentality.
Who knows, down the road I may actually hook up with a single guy and have the possibility to fall in love again and have a life together. But for now, I seem to attract married men and I like the idea of not falling for them and getting my heart broken. They know their purpose and they seem ok with it. One says he wants to be my only one but he knows he's not. He knows he's married and he can't see me often enough to keep me satisfied. I feel bad that he wants to be the only one but he knew from the start that he was to serve a purpose and he agreed to it.
Wow, lots of rambling here. I shouldn't get on the net and type after surgery and while on pain meds ;)

I would appreciate any thoughts or opinions of the subject though. Thanks

This is kind of another 'take' on the poly discussions. As with all multiple partner relations, whether a dom OR a sub can successfully have more than one partner depends on all the people involved.

Communications between all the legs, whether a Vee or a Triad (flexing my small poly vocabulary) or interlocking sets, is important.

I think there can't be too much communication.

I also think the involved parties all must remain confident in themselves and of their relative roles.

I think I may be guilty of inadequately communicating sometimes... but circumstances can become "extenuating" as they say.

The right Dom may well command you to sleep with other men on a regular basis... but on his terms not yours. He may also limit your sexual activity, apply cum restriction. It is these things you need to be aware of before you agree to serve a Dom

I am honest to a fault and have no problem with letting someone know if they are or aren't satisfying me. I have already gone through the totem pole issue with one of my friends and we worked out the issue. He is very cool now and knows how I feel about him.
I am aware that a Dom may restrict my activities. I will try my very best to obey him. This is what I want to do and I wouldn't want to disappoint my master.

One of my friends is very timid and paranoid about getting caught when we sneak out to the woods for some fun. Last week I took complete control, told him to get in my car, drove us to a spot and demanded that he take off his pants. I was hungry and wanted to suck his cock. It felt really good to scare him and tell him what to do. I don't know if that is something I'd want to do on a regular basis but I definitely see the draw to being dominate.