So confused

Ok i have to give some background about me otherwise it might not make sence. my Husband (who has become my Master, recently) and i have been married for seven and a half years now. W/we have a wonderful little girl. O/ou marriage has been very rocky and on and off again many times. As a last chance to save it i came up with this great idea of M/s in O/our life. He gets want He really wants (controll over everything, and me not being a B*tch all the time) i get what i need a loving care peaceful house for O/our daughter. Great, problem solved. And it has been working for thepast few months. W/we are looking at places to move back in with eachother and W/we can talk without fighting, it's great.
That is untill last night. He said to me He wants to divorce me, not live with me, yet keep me as His misstress and slave. Am i wrong for telling Him i can't live like that? He says i have no choice in the matter and if He wants this it will happen. i flat out told Him i couldn't live feeling like i'm His dirty little secret, after being with Him so long. Am i wrong for trying to go against Him? Should i really just shut my mouth and do as He see fits? i love him more than i can ever put into words. And don't get me wrong, He is a great person if you know Him. He can just be a little diffrent at times.
Thanks for any help,
pyxzie :)

No, you are NOT wrong! Do NOT let him buffalo you into that kind of relationship. If you don't want it, there's no way you would be happy. He would be happy, for damned sure, but you wouldn't.

Even in a M/s relationship, unless you are going for the full deal, you have to consent to whatever is going on. The kind of deal he's talking about wouldn't be good for either you or your daughter. He is the only one who benefits. My advice is to walk away, give him the divorce and soak him for alimony and child support. Then, maybe, find someone who cares about you, and your daughter, more than about himself.

Sure, it's a hard step to take. But for your own happiness and, I think, safety, it's one you must take.

Good luck.

I was thinking pretty much the same what Thorne already said when i read it.

Good luck and i hope you'll find all enough strength and power to go through this.