Finding the right time.

Well just to get you on the right page i am just starting to enjoy the part time life of bdsm with my wife/sub and i know she enjoys it as well.We have just started testing the waters together trying different things and finding our limits. But with a child in the house it is limited to the bed room which we would love to expand. Does anyone know of any web sites where we can find places to expand our understanding and amount of time(say weekend vacation spots) to explore more.

There's a forum here called BDSM Events - lots of threads calling out different events in different areas. Atlanta has quite an active scene - you may want to check it out. Good luck!