Originally Posted by
Ozme52
I suggest you need a dominant who is more interested in exerting his dominion over you with words, body control (such as hands in your hair, seeing you exert yourself for him, perhaps positions,) who enjoys fetish photography and tableaus, one who takes pleasure from your sexual obeisance and your general obedience.
A dom who prefers a pain response will not enjoy you as he would someone with a low pain threshold. Certainly you shouldn't be with a sadist, you will just be a frustration to him, perhaps even a challenge which can come to no good end.
You need to find a good match... not a careful dominant (in this case.) If you already have a dominant you adore, you need to discuss this with him in light of these revelations... and he has to decide if he can live without play that can cause body damage.
I see no good coming from an attempt to "sensitize" you to pain.