nemesis

i need some advice please, i have a fear of canes they are my nemesis as with my 2nd Master the cane was his favourite toy implement One day he went over the top and used a rattan cane and bamboo cane on the bottom of my feet and damaged quite a few nerves, i was put into hospital and had to be helped to be able to walk again properly which took over 6 months to do so. The Master who i have now knows of this and wants me to like the cane but everytime he brings the cane out i start to quiver and shake with fear. Master normally uses the cane on my butt but is trying to introduce it to the bottom of my feet as i like to be pushed. Is there any advice that you could give me on this subject many thanks singletaillover.

Quite frankly, I'd go about making you learn to love the cane with stong tones of domination and submission.

Talking to the submissive within, making you need to please me....


AND I'd make the bottoms of your feet a hard limit. (Mine if not yours.) You should never go through that again. First, you may have coped and can walk again, but it is unlikely you are "undamaged" physically. You can't assume, even if you can bear it, that you can take another trauma to your feet.

Why risk your mobility? I think that would be foolish, even for a single swipe of the cane. (Note, my answer would be different if this were merely fear. But you've stated you were in rehab. No way, no how, never again.)

There are plenty of ways to push you that don't have to put you at risk.

There are plenty of exceptionally painful places that you can be caned, besides the buttocks, that can be substituted when it comes to pushing limits.

sorry, double post

You have a fear of canes but you go for doms who love them in a big way. Go figure.
I agree with Oz about the feet. Just leave them alone, don't risk further damaging an already damaged area. If your Master takes his responsibilities seriously, this would be the conclusion he'd come to.
Sturdy caning on the bottom can provide you with a sufficiency of challenge , believe me!

Perhaps this is a bit blunt, but honestly. You were in the hospital and rehab for six months after your feet were caned, and now the two of you are even CONSIDERING introducing bastinado into your relationship? Your master sounds either criminally stupid or totally indifferent to your well-being, and I'm astounded that you would put this in the category of "I like to be pushed."