Preparing for my anal weekend!

My wonderful Dom and i took a little trip to the pharmacy to buy an enema bottle to start the preparation for this weekend. When we got to the house going up the 3 flights of stairs my dom told me to take off my pants. Of course i took my pants off without any thought, He then opened the bottle of enema and shoved it in my ass. Then he made me wait 5 excruciating mins before i could go to the bathroom (of course i ask for his permission to go to the bathroom). This preparation is for this weekend, My Dom is going to tie me up in a way i cannot moved any limbs, then hes goin to play with my clit for a little:icon176:. Then he will stick his cock in my ass, fuck my ass reallll good and then he going to shove his cock down my throat and iam going to suck all the cum out of him!

I was just wondering what thoughts went through your mind while reading this, please fell free and tell me what you think!:madfire:

Thank you,
Petdoll (WIPLASH'S GIRL)

Well personally first off, I was thinking of the safty issues and implications involved with using recognizable face shot pictures on an internet porn site.

Then I was also hoping one keeps in mind all the other issues involved with anal to oral contact.

There are obviously some health conserns.

I am glad you plan on cleaning yourself out beforehand, I personally reccomend a nice plain water enema prior.

There are many health problems that can result from practicing unsafe anal to oral contact, because of the presence of bacteria, viruses or parasites on or in the anus or rectum.

These include Hepatitis A, Hepatitis B, Hepatitis C, intestinal parasites, chlamydia, human papillomavirus (HPV), gonorrhea, herpes, and other sexually transmitted diseases.

Applying the mouth to his cock after it has been up your back door can inadvertently introduce the bacterium Escherichia coli ("E. coli") into the urethra, causing a urinary tract infection, not to mention reintroducing higher levels of it into the wrong end of you digestive track resulting in some frequent trips to the little girls room for you later.

Frequent ass to mouth with casual partners increases the health risks associated with the practice.

If the couple knows that each of them has a healthy background, there is less risk of catching one of the serious viruses or parasites.

Parasites may be in the feces if poorly cooked meat was consumed.

Hepatitis A traces in feces only apply if the infected person has eaten contaminated food.

Hepatitis C is rare although possible if the receiver has trace amounts of infected blood through the anus or feces.

If you have wounds or open sores in your mouth or anus, or if the giving partner has wounds or open sores on or in their penis, this poses an increased risk of STD transmission.

Brushing the teeth, flossing, undergoing dental work, or eating crunchy foods such as potato chips relatively soon before or after performing ass to mouth also increases the risk of transmission, because all of these activities can cause small scratches on the inside of the lips, cheeks and palate.

These wounds, even when they are microscopic, increase the chances of contracting STDs that can be transmitted orally under these conditions. Such contact can also lead to infections from common bacteria and viruses found in and around the genitals and anus.


Saftey first, kinky second is my motto.

Otherwise have fun and enjoy.

Applying the mouth to his cock after it has been up your back door can inadvertently introduce the bacterium Escherichia coli ("E. coli") into the urethra, ah? lol what are you talking about do you google all this lol and then try to sound all smart ? please do you think my man don't know all that and who say the he is going to ATM me ? I dint say that at all but good idea

Actually you did sugest that very thing and I quote:

"then hes goin to play with my clit for a little. Then he will stick his cock in my ass, fuck my ass reallll good and then he going to shove his cock down my throat and iam going to suck all the cum out of him! "

Sounds like classic ass to mouth activity to me.

And alltough I used to be medical professional I do upon occassion indulge in additional reaserch on the computer when it comes to certian things, at least when I want easy quotable material to reference.

As for "trying" to sound "all smart" well...lmao it isn't all that hard to educate oneself so as to not be trying so much as being smart.

And I dont know about your mans knowledge levels when it comes to some of the medical saftey issues conserning this paticular topic so I wouldnt presume to make a judgment on that one.

Again, be safe and have fun.

It seems the misunderstanding is that Petdoll wonders how she can get an infected urethra if the play is in the ass and mouth, not the vagina.

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Originally Posted by petdoll

Applying the mouth to his cock after it has been up your back door can inadvertently introduce the bacterium Escherichia coli ("E. coli") into the urethra, ah? lol what are you talking about do you google all this lol and then try to sound all smart ? please do you think my man don't know all that and who say the he is going to ATM me ? I dint say that at all but good idea

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Well, petdoll...you asked for opinions...you wanted to know what we all thought about your original post. What denuseri is trying to warn you against is a perfectly legitimate issue. I'm sure we can all breathe a sigh of relief that "Your Man" knows all about the safety issues involved but perhaps others forum readers might not.

Perhaps next time you wish to share your excitement about something new you and your man are trying, blog about it instead of opening yourself up to forum replies and warnings.

Good luck to you...sounds like you'll need it.

The urethera part should have included something about going into the vagina after anal penetration has allready occured Dejah sorry for the typo lol.

wow what kind of people are you guys lol i have some Md's and nurses and police officers warning warning lol you people make me Laugh now i know why my master is no longer a member people here are well like you .. and what is this "your men" lmao wow and the other (bth) "google lady" typo yea right lol you know what i think the you women ladies "whatever" just bored and all this is just a fantasy for you people but for me is a reality

please don't take offense, i don't think anything that was written was an attack on you or your sir. even though you may know what your doing, not everyone does and thats all it was for, information for those that don't know. many people have come here looking for advice and suggestions, people who have never played before and safety is integral. people do die from some of what denu said above. it wasn't meant as a slam on you at all

i hope that you enjoy your weekend very much

Petdoll, people are warning you because they care about you, honey. BDSM practiced the wrong way can be dangerous. Even vanilla sex practiced the wrong way can be dangerous because of diseases you may catch. Nobody's telling you that you can't enjoy your weekend with your Sir; we're just looking out for you so that you practice it in a safe way so that you don't get hurt.

Yes, you can get hurt. You can get sick. Some of us have seen that happen to others, and trust me, getting sick or injured takes all the fun away. We're not telling you to not do this, we're just telling you to be careful and get all the facts before you do something so you can do it safely.

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Originally Posted by petdoll

I was just wondering what thoughts went through your mind while reading this, please fell free and tell me what you think!:madfire:

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The thought that ran through my mind was that I was reading fiction (or wishful thinking) written by someone who was trying to make an impression by using sophomoric descriptions. Might not be the case, but that's what it sounded like.

Safety is a very important issue. To ignore it could mean death or serious illness or injury. And this applies to mental health as well as physical. Anyone who posts about wanting to do something or having done something on this thread usually faces at least one query about thier safety - whether it is a question about chaperones or safecalls when you go to meet someone for the first time or a comment about how to avoid infection on wounds inflicted during play. In another thread, Jennifer challenged me on my comment that you could use a raw egg as a gag but you had to break it to remove it. She was quite rightly concerned about salmonella. I took that in the spirit in which it was intended and engaged in a discussion about the issues. In another thread again, there was some mention of waterplay - self bondage in water. Again, someone mentioned safety and the guy who posted originally responded with a list of precautions he took and apologised for implying that he was performing an unsafe act.

In my experience most BDSM practicioners who actually do practise on a daily basis are fully and actutely aware of the issues of safety. They know how dangerous these things are, there are enough reports in the media about the small percentage of cases that get noticed. Many of these become concerned when someone posts about things they want to do or have done without addressing the safety issue. They do not condemn the practise but they do condemn apparent ignorance of the possible risks. One thing you have to ask yourself: what if someone else were to try what you describe, thinking it was ok and safe? You may be following loads of safety stuff that you have not bothered to mention (not your fault, you have a different focus in posting) but someone who reads it is not aware of these. So, other posters see this apparent gap and make sure that who ever reads that thread is aware of the risks.

Personally, with a long term partner who has no other partners and you are both clear of STDs and are cleaned before and soon after, I don't think the risk of infection is that great. A bit of mouthwash after can sort it out usually and a good shower. Or check out what those who engage in scat do to minimise risk because if anything the risk is 100 times worse from eating shit in bulk than it is from small amounts from a clean anus (especially your own). If you were exceptionally concerned then consider a condom for the anal part which can be taken off for the rest of it.

The point is, you need to be aware of the risks before you engage - its part of the whole consent thing.

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Originally Posted by TwistedTails

We are: People from every occupation, Nurses, Police, Soldiers, Sailors, Secretaries, more occupations than you can list.
We are people from every walk of life.
We are people from almost all of the nations where BDSM will not get you burned at the stake (and a few from places that would LOL)
We are people that have experience ranging from a few months to 50 years.
We are people who are out in public everyday.
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We are people who share our experiences and knowledge with each other and value that access because no one person can have experience in everything.

We are players,
We are lurkers,
We are the homebound living their electronic fantasies.
We are people who care enough to help the new find themselves, and the old dogs to learn new tricks.
We are an electronic family,
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Cheers
Twisted :wave:

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Pure perfection, TT. :pray:

wow you guy's SUCK!

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Originally Posted by TwistedTails

We are: People from every occupation, Nurses, Police, Soldiers, Sailors, Secretaries, more occupations than you can list.
We are people from every walk of life.
We are people from almost all of the nations where BDSM will not get you burned at the stake (and a few from places that would LOL)
We are people that have experience ranging from a few months to 50 years.
We are people who are out in public everyday.
We are people who have never left their bedrooms.
We are people who share our experiences and knowledge with each other and value that access because no one person can have experience in everything.

We are players,
We are lurkers,
We are the homebound living their electronic fantasies.
We are people who care enough to help the new find themselves, and the old dogs to learn new tricks.
We are an electronic family,
We are......

The Library

Cheers
Twisted :wave:

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Originally Posted by brwneydgirl

Pure perfection, TT. :pray:

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i agree, brwneydgirl ....Absolutely! :D

There are rare times when the people of the Library come together to show their united spirit and true colors. TwistedTail's post was on the spot & eloquent, and we thought it deserved a place beyond this thread...

...so...

Here it is! http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...767#post869767

And I think this thread has shown that there IS a great community of support and willingness to help... all you have to do is want to listen. Of course, no one can make you want to listen (as we've seen in this thread), but if you are willing, the answers are here and the people are waiting & willing with assistance.

Oh, I'm so glad! That was such a beautiful poem, Twisted.